Those who are constantly late and flaky are often the first ones to get upset when others do the same to them. Human beings have a difficult time looking at themselves in the mirror. We see ourselves as imperfect or just OK for now. But the true test is when we see our behavior in others. How do we handle imperfection and lack? Most will blame others and the minority will actually see the imperfection in themselves. That is a level of consciousness that few understand or accept as truth.