Ignoring the Horse

Happy 2014 Chinese New Year!

What happens when you ignore a horse in a room? Well, sometimes, it just goes away. Most of the time, the horse just keeps growing. When it comes to relationships, your health, or finances…ignorance can be bliss, but eventually it explodes beyond repair. My general rule regarding issues or “red flags” in a relationship is to deal with them immediately. Holding on to anger builds resentment. Resentment leads to a couple of really big horses in the room!