All relationships are capable of “working.” It’s really just a matter of whether or not the two people involved want to make it work. What I’m simply saying is that two people can make things work out if they both have the desire and are willing to give or take. Let’s say someone has a cheating spouse. Well, you can accept the cheating or the cheating can stop. It’s just a matter of understanding, communicating and accepting the others behavior that makes a relationship work or not. In the divorced couples that I have studied, the common denominator is that one person is no longer willing to tolerate the others behavior. The relationship ends and they both move on looking for someone else to tolerate their behavior or they just completely quit on being in a relationship. As you may have noticed, I did not mention anything about love.